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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-18010</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 11:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Both my boys LOVE their little naked selves.  They are 4 and not-quite 6 and relish any excuse to drop their pants.  In fact, just the other day when they were supposed to be getting ready to go to the pool, I caught my 4 year old prancing around in front of the neighbor girls -- who had come over to go with us --  completely naked, wiggling it around as best he could, singing "I LOVE MY WEEEEEEE-NUS!!!!!!" at the top of his lungs.  Needless to say, the neighbor girls (5 and 8) had no idea what to do and were standing there half horrified half intrigued by the impromptu serenade they were getting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Both my boys LOVE their little naked selves.  They are 4 and not-quite 6 and relish any excuse to drop their pants.  In fact, just the other day when they were supposed to be getting ready to go to the pool, I caught my 4 year old prancing around in front of the neighbor girls &#8212; who had come over to go with us &#8212;  completely naked, wiggling it around as best he could, singing &#8220;I LOVE MY WEEEEEEE-NUS!!!!!!&#8221; at the top of his lungs.  Needless to say, the neighbor girls (5 and <img src='http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> had no idea what to do and were standing there half horrified half intrigued by the impromptu serenade they were getting.</p>
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		<title>By: tori</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-17984</link>
		<dc:creator>tori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 14:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My neighbor's son (my son's best friend) used to come over to play and the minute he walked in the door he would take off his pants.  Finally I asked his mom about this.  She was totally embarrassed, but luckily we are friends so we both laughed about it.  

A few days later she called and said she figured out why he strips down the minute he walks in our door.  When his dad gets home from work each night, he takes off his work pants and puts on sweat pants.  The kids were little, maybe 3 or so when he did this, so he assumed that is just what you do when you walk in the door.  Sort of like Mr. Rogers and his sweaters and shoes, but a little more funny.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My neighbor&#8217;s son (my son&#8217;s best friend) used to come over to play and the minute he walked in the door he would take off his pants.  Finally I asked his mom about this.  She was totally embarrassed, but luckily we are friends so we both laughed about it.  </p>
<p>A few days later she called and said she figured out why he strips down the minute he walks in our door.  When his dad gets home from work each night, he takes off his work pants and puts on sweat pants.  The kids were little, maybe 3 or so when he did this, so he assumed that is just what you do when you walk in the door.  Sort of like Mr. Rogers and his sweaters and shoes, but a little more funny.</p>
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		<title>By: cryitout</title>
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		<dc:creator>cryitout</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 21:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely age appropriate. Dana Carvey had a whole skit about "naked time." I don't think he was talking about 31-year-olds, but our windows have nice curtains anyway.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely age appropriate. Dana Carvey had a whole skit about &#8220;naked time.&#8221; I don&#8217;t think he was talking about 31-year-olds, but our windows have nice curtains anyway.</p>
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		<title>By: Devra</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-17920</link>
		<dc:creator>Devra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 20:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Utterly age appropriate.

My advice would be "Legalize and Regulate" Examples of what I mean are:

"Ian, if you want to be naked, you can be naked in your bedroom or the bathroom. Those two places you can be naked for as long as you want and as often as you want."

or

Get out your egg/kitchen timer and tell Ian "Every day we'll be having 'Naked Time', I'll set the timer, you take your pants off and when the timer goes off, the pants go back on."

I remember when my sons were that age I would have to tell them "That's not the kind of living we do in the living room. You want to live like that, fine, but do it in your bedroom or bathroom."

Not that I am repressed, kids can be naked anywhere in the house if that works for your family. But for most, it seems that regulating nakedness to bedrooms and bathrooms. But if you are okay with where they are naked, then the timer approach might help curb the amount of nudity instead of redirecting where it occurs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Utterly age appropriate.</p>
<p>My advice would be &#8220;Legalize and Regulate&#8221; Examples of what I mean are:</p>
<p>&#8220;Ian, if you want to be naked, you can be naked in your bedroom or the bathroom. Those two places you can be naked for as long as you want and as often as you want.&#8221;</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>Get out your egg/kitchen timer and tell Ian &#8220;Every day we&#8217;ll be having &#8216;Naked Time&#8217;, I&#8217;ll set the timer, you take your pants off and when the timer goes off, the pants go back on.&#8221;</p>
<p>I remember when my sons were that age I would have to tell them &#8220;That&#8217;s not the kind of living we do in the living room. You want to live like that, fine, but do it in your bedroom or bathroom.&#8221;</p>
<p>Not that I am repressed, kids can be naked anywhere in the house if that works for your family. But for most, it seems that regulating nakedness to bedrooms and bathrooms. But if you are okay with where they are naked, then the timer approach might help curb the amount of nudity instead of redirecting where it occurs.</p>
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		<title>By: mamacrow</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-17917</link>
		<dc:creator>mamacrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 19:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My third son is currently 4, and is clothed most of the time, he just often dosn't put boxers on... so he has shorts or trousers but nothing on underneath.... What I'm trying to say is that he's clothed but often goes comando!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My third son is currently 4, and is clothed most of the time, he just often dosn&#8217;t put boxers on&#8230; so he has shorts or trousers but nothing on underneath&#8230;. What I&#8217;m trying to say is that he&#8217;s clothed but often goes comando!</p>
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		<title>By: Queen of Shake Shake</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-17901</link>
		<dc:creator>Queen of Shake Shake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally normal.  I have a 7 and 5.5 year old boys. 

They both went through that stage around 4 where I couldn't turn around or they'd be naked.

I got use to see a lot of little nuts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally normal.  I have a 7 and 5.5 year old boys. </p>
<p>They both went through that stage around 4 where I couldn&#8217;t turn around or they&#8217;d be naked.</p>
<p>I got use to see a lot of little nuts.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen @ amazingtrips</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen @ amazingtrips</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 07:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, my 3-yo boy doesn't strip down ... but his 3-yo sisters do. One of my greatest challenges during the day is keeping those kids clothed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, my 3-yo boy doesn&#8217;t strip down &#8230; but his 3-yo sisters do. One of my greatest challenges during the day is keeping those kids clothed.</p>
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		<title>By: Ma McFartington</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ma McFartington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 18:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boys had the same issue.  They outgrew it.  Apparently I had the same issue at around 3-4.  Much to Ritch's dismay, I outgrew it also.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boys had the same issue.  They outgrew it.  Apparently I had the same issue at around 3-4.  Much to Ritch&#8217;s dismay, I outgrew it also.</p>
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		<title>By: the kaiser</title>
		<link>http://sarahandthegoonsquad.com/2008/06/04/parenting-advice-needed/#comment-17878</link>
		<dc:creator>the kaiser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 17:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm not wearing any pants right now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not wearing any pants right now.</p>
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		<title>By: sunshine</title>
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		<dc:creator>sunshine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Show him the picture from yesterday and then hide the lunch meat.

Oh, wait, that's probably not appropriate.  Damn.

When oldest two were very young I considered it a victory that they both had diapers on when we greeted the mailman.

Good luck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Show him the picture from yesterday and then hide the lunch meat.</p>
<p>Oh, wait, that&#8217;s probably not appropriate.  Damn.</p>
<p>When oldest two were very young I considered it a victory that they both had diapers on when we greeted the mailman.</p>
<p>Good luck.</p>
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